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{{label}}08 March 2021
Whenever I look back on my journey as a female athlete, I always mentally thank and honour the important women in my life who have been my pillars of support � my mother, my sisters, my coach and many more who have shaped me into who I am today.
The truth is that female inclusivity in sports has come a long way. It is a hard-earned journey that is paved by the courage and audacity of women before us, so that today, we are not afraid to go against the status quo and break gender stereotypes. Thanks to them, the women of today have more opportunities to participate and excel in the professional sporting world.
The solution to the first barrier sounds simple but it requires the greatest collective effort from everyone � women, men, adult, children, athletes, and non-athletes alike � as it is not easy to erase years of systematically-ingrained gender stereotypes.
Instead of calling a female athlete �rough� or �muscular�, how about we tell girls how determined, strong, healthy and powerful they can become because they are active and play sports. By letting girls know that they are strong and empowering them to refine their skills in sport, they can develop the confidence to do anything that they set their minds to.
In Malaysia, I am honoured to be recognised for my achievements rather than my gender � I was never seen differently for being a female athlete. I felt tremendous pride in putting my country on the world map and, throughout my squash career and until today, everyone across the nation has been incredibly supportive.
And worse, there are critics out there who deliberately compare women to men to create sensationalism. Comparing doesn�t help either side. For female athletes, it only makes things harder for them to step up and shine in their own light.
I was lucky that I had such a strong support system growing up. My parents have always been my biggest cheerleaders. They never once pressured me or my sisters to excel in our sports or studies. Rather, they encouraged us to do our best, brought us to all our squash lessons and competitions, were there for me when I was abroad, and knew what to do whenever I was down and needed the right motivation to push on.
I am glad that I can be someone that girls can look up to, just as how I had looked up to my sisters, Lianne and Cheryl. Both of them inspire me and are also my benchmarks to becoming a good, competitive player. Beyond that, I realise that as a female athlete myself, I can also bring change to my field.
One of my proudest moments aside from winning tournaments was when I had the privilege to represent the women�s tour in some way. Back then, there were still many major squash tournaments that only hosted the men while the women did exhibition events on the side. I recall a particular promoter for the tournament who had been asking me to play at the exhibition event for many years, but I had always responded that I will only participate if the women�s squash tournament was held alongside the men�s. Eventually, the promoter created an equally big event for both the men and women division, and only then did I confirm my participation.
With that said, however, I hope that girls and other athletes will not only walk the path that has been paved for them but also create a path of their own, because they have the power and influence to bring change to the sporting world.
Malaysian girls have a lot of potential in the world of sports and especially in the next five to ten years, with the encouragement of the state and national sports associations around Malaysia. If we continue to nurture our young girls � with training and early exposure in national and international competitions � they will gain the experience they need to actualise their true potential and unearth their inner strength.
And to all the young girls out there, if playing sports makes your heart pump harder in excitement and brings you joy, keep at it. Be true to yourself and don�t let anyone tell you what you can or can�t do. If you have the dream, the talent, the passion, and you�re willing to put in the hard work, you can make it happen for yourself.
Nicol David is AIA Malaysia�s Ambassador. Nicol has an impressive 19-year squash career under her belt, where she dominated global rankings by winning eight World Titles and held the World Number 1 position for a total of 109 consecutive months.